Weaning in Context of AP Principles

Three years ago, I nightweaned my son. A little over a year after that, he weaned himself completely. In order to get ready for any of that, I volunteered to lead a meeting on weaning for our local chapter of Attachment Parenting International. The distance of teaching on the topic helped keep me from getting . . . → Read More: Weaning in Context of AP Principles

What’s Your Superpower?

I used to make milk. My son sometimes wishes I still had that superpower, but since he weaned himself at 3 and he’s now 4 1/2, I think that ship has sailed.

My current superpower is that I can open any book to where I was just reading. No props like bookmarks, no need to . . . → Read More: What’s Your Superpower?

Saying Goodbye to the Milk

This is the second post in a series. Read Part I: Three Year Old Weans himself here.

For more nights than I’d kept track of, Cavanaugh didn’t want to go to sleep. We’d get through the whole bedtime routine: nighttime diaper and pajamas, yogurt and a story, brush teeth, into bed for three stories, then . . . → Read More: Saying Goodbye to the Milk

Three Year Old Weans Himself

Nursing at 11 months

No, child-led weaning is not propaganda spread by La Leche League. It truly exists. I’d begun to wonder, honestly, even though I’d heard stories of friends, and friends of friends, whose children had weaned themselves. But now I’ve experienced natural weaning firsthand and I’m here to tell you it actually . . . → Read More: Three Year Old Weans Himself

Books (& DVD) to Bring the Baby Home

A whole lot of my friends are either pregnant or have just had babies so I’ve been referring to this list a lot. Thought it was time for a repost of these resources I was grateful for or wish I’d had when we brought the baby home from the hospital. Better yet, I wish I’d . . . → Read More: Books (& DVD) to Bring the Baby Home

Night Weaning Part V: Everything No One Ever Told You About Night Weaning

When I read about night weaning, my main fears were that the weaning itself would be traumatic, that we’d have to move Cavanaugh out of the family bed or he’d never stop nursing at night, or that once partially weaned, Cavanaugh would wean completely. The books and websites introduced more fears I hadn’t even thought . . . → Read More: Night Weaning Part V: Everything No One Ever Told You About Night Weaning

Guest Post: How I Night-Weaned My Daughter

Breastfeeding did not come easy for me in the beginning. It took lots of hard work and lots of pain before my daughter and I were in a truly wonderful breastfeeding relationship. So it was not an easy decision for me when I decided that it was time to night wean Emma.

For the first . . . → Read More: Guest Post: How I Night-Weaned My Daughter

Night Weaning Part IV: Crying Over Unspilled Milk

Nighttime is when our kids get fevers, have nightmares, or otherwise need our help–even though we are sleeping and wish they were too. The key to night weaning is that once you stop offering milk as a panacea for night waking, you need to have some other tools for getting your child to sleep. I . . . → Read More: Night Weaning Part IV: Crying Over Unspilled Milk

Night Weaning Part III: Milk Bar Closed Unless…

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Night Weaning is not a one way milestone, accomplished and never thought of again. Backsliding and challenges will complicate your child’s major accomplishment, will interrupt your newly found full night’s sleep. Teething, illness, house-guests, the teenager across the street blaring hip hop from his . . . → Read More: Night Weaning Part III: Milk Bar Closed Unless…

Night Weaning Part II: What Happens After You Tell the Boy to Sleep Through the Night

After I told Cavanaugh that he, the milk, and I were all going to start sleeping through the night, it took less than a week for us to start getting full nights of sleep. The first night, I started weaning without having planned it in advance. Cavanaugh woke at 3:30 and wanted to nurse for . . . → Read More: Night Weaning Part II: What Happens After You Tell the Boy to Sleep Through the Night