What’s fun for you? Since every day of this year I’m posting about at least one thing I did to take care of myself, I’m already noticing that throughout each day I’m thinking about self care. Have I done something to make sure I’m okay mentally, physically, emotionally, or spiritually? Some days I have so many possibilities I’m not sure what to post about. Others, it’s more of a struggle.
I started reading The Happiness Project by Gretchen Rubin this week. I figured it would have some helpful ideas about self care. Today, I was reading the May chapter: “Be Serious About Play.” In order to figure out how or what to play, Gretchen decided she needed to determine what was fun for her. I thought it sounded like a great idea and, as I read the chapter, I kept thinking of things that are fun for me.
So here’s my list of 50 fun things, in no particular order. Maybe some of them are fun for you too. Or maybe my list will help you think of other things that are fun for you.
- Riding ziplines
- Driving fast: in cars, jet skis, ATVs, mopeds
- Taking a bubble bath while reading
- Playing games: cards (especially whist), taboo, scattergories, backgammon, dominoes
- Doing jigsaw puzzles of beautiful photographs
- Crocheting
- Making jewelry
- Making a collage
- Picking out or making presents
- Making someone else feel special, seen, loved
- Watching movies
- Watching television without commercials (yea Netflix and hulu)
- Going on walks in nature
- Listening to music
- Gardening
- Talking on the phone to a good friend who is far away (if they’re in town, I’d much rather talk in person)
- Going out with one friend to lunch, on a walk, or wherever we can have real and deep talk about how we are, what’s happening in our lives
- Meeting with groups to help each other focus (writing group, mastermind group, personal renewal group)
- Book groups
- Getting together with a group of friends (mama happy hours, knitting nest happy hours)
- Reading books
- Learning
- Reading magazines: gardening, parenting, gossip
- Debating ideas
- Going to see music I love
- Going to the theater
- Going to dance performances
- Going to galleries and museums
- Scrapbooking
- Writing
- Lying in my hammock
- Math
- Eating
- Cuddling
- Holding hands
- Sleeping late
- Drinking coffee outside
- Traveling
- Collecting quotes
- Hanging out with my nephews
- Shopping
- Creating beauty (whether decorating, gardening, making)
- Setting up altars
- Ice skating
- Drinking a couple of frozen margaritas with good Mexican food
- Exercise (if I could just remember that when I’m not exercising)
- Looking out the window (at a rain or snowstorm, from a train, into our yard)
- Making playlists of music
- Teaching/Sharing knowledge
- Exploring (new places, stores, ideas)
It felt great to realize that I find so many things fun and that I engage in many of the items on this list on a pretty regular basis. One of my favorite things was recognizing that so much of what is fun for me could be done with other people: my son, my nephews, and other friends.
Okay, now it’s time for your list. I’d love to read what is fun for you. Do you do them often?
Photo by GRoz


This is a great list and is something that I think would be of great benefit to everyone to do. You’ve inspired me to sit down and come up with my 50 fun things list.
I have to say I love #32 – math. My mom is a math teacher and my son is a math nut so I can see how it would be fun.
For me, I love dancing. I’m not talking about structured classes (who has time for that hehe) but dancing as I walk around the house picking up toys. Dancing while making dinner. Dancing just because.
Thanks for sharing this list and for the book recommendation, I think I’m going to have to add it to my reading list.
Melissa, I was an English major through all three degrees, but I scored higher on my GRE in math than in verbal, by a wide margin. It feels like this great puzzle.
I love dancing too and watching my son dance may even be more fun than doing it myself.
Once you’ve made your 50 fun things list, I’d love to read more of what you’ve got.
Well I managed to come up with my first 10 things hehe. I blogged about it today and linked back here.
I do agree that watching the kids dance is even more fun than doing it yourself. Thankfully both of the kids love to dance and not just in dance classes.
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